I grew up in Texas. I think that is all the explanation needed.
Here is a conversation I had today...
Me: I need a good red wine to go with steak. What do you recommend?
Wine Lady: Are you Bar-B-Qing?
Me: No, we are grilling.
WL: Right, BBQ.
Me: No, grilling.
WL: Um, okay how about this one?
She was still looking at me funny as I walked away.